Love And Friends And Enemies

Et si diligitis eos, qui vos diligunt, quae vobis est gratia? Nam et peccatores diligentes se diligunt, etc. Si etiam peccatores, publicani et ethnici, erga dilectores suos natura duce norunt esse benefici, quantum vos, inquit, quibus ut gradus professionis eximior, ita cura necesse est sit virtutis uberior, latiori sinu dilectionis amplecti debetis etiam non amantes? Unde quaesitu dignum videtur quomodo cum Dominus eos qui diligentes se solum diligunt, benefacientibus sibi benefaciunt, amicis fenerantur, non modo perfectam non habere charitatem, verum peccatoribus aequiparari testetur, ille pectoris dominici recubitor Epistolam de Dei et proximi dilectione consummans, non uspiam inimicos monuerit esse diligendos, sed absolute dixerit: Quia si diligamus invicem, Deus in nobis manet, et charitas Dei in nobis perfecta est. Quod si quem movet, sciat eum non de inimicorum amore tacuisse, sed et illos fratrum nomine comprehendisse fraternique amoris intuitu diligi, et pro eis praecepisse orari. Scilicet, ut non semper inimici remaneant, sed resipiscant a diaboli laqueis, nobisque germano foedere socientur. Nec durum videatur, quod nondum credentes, propter spem tamen credendi fratres apellari posse dicimus. Nam idem Joannes, eos etiam filios Dei vocitare legitur. Quia Jesus, inquit, moriturus erat pro gente, et non tantum pro gente, sed ut filios Dei, qui erant dispersi, congregaret in unum. Quandiu enim dispersi, nondum filii sunt Dei, sed conveniendo in unum, jam efficiuntur filii. Sanctus Beda, In Lucae Evangelium Expositio, Liber I, Caput VI Source: Migne PL 92.407a-c

And if you love those who love you, what credit is that to you. For even sinners love those who love them... 1 If even sinners, tax collectors and gentiles, know by nature that their lovers are of benefit, how much more should you be more excellent, because of which care is needed for a more abundant virtue, so that with a wider lap of love you may embrace with love those who do not love. Now it seems worthwhile to ask how it is that when the Lord says they do not have a perfect love who love only those who love them, and who do good to those who do good to them, and help friends, and He gives witness to it by the comparison with sinners, yet he who reclined on the Lord's breast, concluded his letter about the love of God and neighbour with no exhortation anywhere to the love of enemies, but openly stated, 'Because if we love one another, God remains in us, and the love of God is perfected in us.' 2  If one considers it, one may understand that he has not been silent about the love of enemies, but includes them under the name of brothers who are to be loved with fraternal love, and he has commanded us to pray for them, that is, so that they might not always remain enemies, but recognise the snares of the devil and join us in familial relationship. It does not seem so difficult that we should be able to call them brothers while they are not yet believers on account of the hope of them becoming believers. For the same John even calls them sons of god. 'Because Jesus' it says, 'should die for the people, and not only for the people, but so that the sons of God who are scattered might be gathered into one.' 3 For while they were scattered they were not sons of God, but coming together as one, so they are made sons. Saint Bede, Commentary on the Gospel of Luke, Book 1, Chapter 6 1 Lk 6.32 2 1 Jn 4.12 3 Jn 11.51-52