Advice On Prayer

Μὴ προσεύχου τὰ σὰ θελήματα γενέσθαι· οὐδὲ γὰρ πάντως συμωνοῦσι τῷ θελήματι τοῦ θεοῦ, ἀλλὰ μᾶλλον καθὼς ἐδιδάχθης, προσεύχου λέγων· Γενηθήτω τὸ θέλημά σου ἐν ἐμοί· καὶ ἐπὶ παντὶ δὲ πράγματι οὕτως αὐτὸν αἴτει ἵνα τὸ αὐτοῦ γένηται θέλημα. θέλει γὰρ τὸ ἀγαθὸν, καὶ συμφέρον τῇ ψυχῇ, σὺ δὲ οὐ πάντως τοῦτο ζητεῖς. Πολλάκις προσευχόμενος ᾐτησάμην γεγέσθαι μοι ὃ ἔδοξα καλὸν εἶναί μοι, καὶ ἐπέμενον τῶ αἰτήματι, ἀλόγως βιαζόμενος τὀ θέλημα τοῦ Θεοῦ, καὶ μὴ ἀποσισοὺς αὐτῷ, ἵνα ὃ οἶδε συμφέρον αὐτὸς μᾶλλον οἰκονομήσῃ, καὶ μέντοι λαβὼν, ὔστερον ἠχθέσθην λίαν, διότι μᾶλλον τὸ βούλημα ἑαυτοῦ ᾐτησάμην γενέσθαι· οὐ γαρ τοιοῦτόν μοι ἀπηντησε τὸ πρᾶγμα, οἷον ἐνόμιζον. Τί ἄλλο ἀγαθὸν ἀλλ' ἢ Θεός; Οὐκοῦν αὐτῷ ἀποδῶμεν πάντα τὰ καθ' ἡμᾶς, καὶ εὖ ἡμῖν ἔσται· ὁ γὰρ ἀγαθὸς πάντως, καὶ ἀγαθῶν ἐστι παροχεὺς δωρεῶν. Μὴ ὡς ἐν δυνάμει κομιζόμενος, εὐθέως παρὰ τοῦ θεοῦ τὸ αἴτημα αἴτει. Βούλεται γὰρ σε ἐπιπλέον εὐεργετῆσαι προσκαρτεροῦντα αὐτῷ ἐν τῇ προσευχῇ. Τί γὰρ αὐτοῦ ἀνώτερον τοῦ τῷ θεῷ προσομιλεῖν καὶ τῇ πρὸς αὐτὸν συνουσίᾳ περισπᾶσθαι;   Εὐάγριος ὁ Ποντικός, Περι προσευχῆς

Do not pray that your will be done, for it is not fully in harmony with the will of God. Rather pray as you were taught, saying in prayer, 'Let your will be done in me.' And in all matters so ask Him that his will be done. For He wills the good and that which profits the soul, but that is not always what you seek. In prayer I have asked for something I thought was good be done for me, insistent in my request, and irrationally forcing God’s will, and so I did not leave it to him who better knows what is profitable, and when later I received, I would have rather asked for his will to be done, for the matter did not turn out as I had thought. What other good is there but God?  So let us hand over to Him everything which concerns us, and it will be well with us; for He is wholly good and the provider of good gifts. Do not turn to your own means if you do not swiftly receive from God your request. For He wishes to benefit you even more by your perseverance in prayer. What is superior to intercourse with God and to be absorbed with being with him? Evagrius Ponticus, On Prayer